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		<title>By: Amanda Linehan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Amanda Linehan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Sep 2009 00:26:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Walter - I like how you said that answers aren&#039;t our only objective in life.  It&#039;s true.  When we make them the objective, we miss things along the way that are important.

Hi Barbara - I thought the picture was beautiful.  How nice to have this in your &quot;neighborhood&quot; ;)  Good point about asking the wrong questions at times.  If you are asking the wrong question, clearly the answer you come to will not be satisfactory.

Hi Jonathan - I absolutely agree.  When you can&#039;t find perfect, you take what&#039;s best.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Walter &#8211; I like how you said that answers aren&#8217;t our only objective in life.  It&#8217;s true.  When we make them the objective, we miss things along the way that are important.</p>
<p>Hi Barbara &#8211; I thought the picture was beautiful.  How nice to have this in your &#8220;neighborhood&#8221; <img src='http://amandalinehan.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' />   Good point about asking the wrong questions at times.  If you are asking the wrong question, clearly the answer you come to will not be satisfactory.</p>
<p>Hi Jonathan &#8211; I absolutely agree.  When you can&#8217;t find perfect, you take what&#8217;s best.</p>
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		<title>By: jonathanfigaro</title>
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		<dc:creator>jonathanfigaro</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Sep 2009 17:44:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It comes down to giving the best you can at that present moment. If you have given all your best then that is all you can do. And You best is great enough.

Great post Amanda!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It comes down to giving the best you can at that present moment. If you have given all your best then that is all you can do. And You best is great enough.</p>
<p>Great post Amanda!</p>
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		<title>By: Barbara Swafford</title>
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		<dc:creator>Barbara Swafford</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Sep 2009 06:45:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Amanda, it&#039;s me again, 

I forgot to mention how much I love the photo you chose. Mt Hood is in my &quot;neighborhood&quot; and every time I see it, I am it awe. It&#039;s a real beauty.
.-= Barbara Swafford&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://bloggingwithoutablog.com/the-15-minute-post/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;The 15 Minute Post&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Amanda, it&#8217;s me again, </p>
<p>I forgot to mention how much I love the photo you chose. Mt Hood is in my &#8220;neighborhood&#8221; and every time I see it, I am it awe. It&#8217;s a real beauty.<br />
.-= Barbara Swafford&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://bloggingwithoutablog.com/the-15-minute-post/" rel="nofollow">The 15 Minute Post</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Barbara Swafford</title>
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		<dc:creator>Barbara Swafford</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Sep 2009 06:43:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Amanda, 

Great post. I love the ending where you say, &quot;We usually want to lead the problem, but sometimes, let the problem lead you.&quot; 

As for perfect answers, I think like you mentioned, we change, and with the change we experience, so do our answers. 

One thing I&#039;ve found when I&#039;m looking for an answer to something I feel is important,  is sometimes I&#039;m asking the wrong question. I also go through the &quot;why&quot; process. I&#039;ll ask myself a question, answer it and then ask &quot;why&quot; (why do I want something, or why would I like to do something, etc). After I have my answer, I&#039;ll ask myself &quot;why&quot; again. I&#039;ll continue to do that until I get to the core answer. For me, I&#039;ve found it very enlightening and have gotten to know myself and my motives much better.
.-= Barbara Swafford&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/bloggingwithoutablog/DWWZ/~3/iLm-uasYTBs/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;The 15 Minute Post&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Amanda, </p>
<p>Great post. I love the ending where you say, &#8220;We usually want to lead the problem, but sometimes, let the problem lead you.&#8221; </p>
<p>As for perfect answers, I think like you mentioned, we change, and with the change we experience, so do our answers. </p>
<p>One thing I&#8217;ve found when I&#8217;m looking for an answer to something I feel is important,  is sometimes I&#8217;m asking the wrong question. I also go through the &#8220;why&#8221; process. I&#8217;ll ask myself a question, answer it and then ask &#8220;why&#8221; (why do I want something, or why would I like to do something, etc). After I have my answer, I&#8217;ll ask myself &#8220;why&#8221; again. I&#8217;ll continue to do that until I get to the core answer. For me, I&#8217;ve found it very enlightening and have gotten to know myself and my motives much better.<br />
.-= Barbara Swafford&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/bloggingwithoutablog/DWWZ/~3/iLm-uasYTBs/" rel="nofollow">The 15 Minute Post</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Walter</title>
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		<dc:creator>Walter</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Sep 2009 01:40:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>There&#039;s no such thing as a perfect answer; you&#039;re right about this. Answers to life&#039;s questions are relative. It may vary from each person. 

But you know what I think? Answers should not be our objective in this life, instead we should have the wisdom of understanding. Answers have been around since the beginning of time, we just need to understand it rather than resisting it. :-)
.-= Walter&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lionslinger.com/2009/09/10/deciding-point-conquering-limitations/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Deciding point: conquering limitations&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There&#8217;s no such thing as a perfect answer; you&#8217;re right about this. Answers to life&#8217;s questions are relative. It may vary from each person. </p>
<p>But you know what I think? Answers should not be our objective in this life, instead we should have the wisdom of understanding. Answers have been around since the beginning of time, we just need to understand it rather than resisting it. <img src='http://amandalinehan.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
.-= Walter&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://www.lionslinger.com/2009/09/10/deciding-point-conquering-limitations/" rel="nofollow">Deciding point: conquering limitations</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Amanda Linehan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Amanda Linehan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Sep 2009 00:35:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Mark - That&#039;s right, when our answers change, we know we are growing.  But, I think you said it best that the real growth occurs when we change our questions.  Thanks a lot for your comment.  :)

Hi Ian - Haha, yeah, we do tend to search even on the pointless questions.

Hi Sara - Yeah, I also relate to that suggestion well.  I think my problem solving ability is pretty good, but sometimes it can become a weakness when I rely on it too much.  ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Mark &#8211; That&#8217;s right, when our answers change, we know we are growing.  But, I think you said it best that the real growth occurs when we change our questions.  Thanks a lot for your comment.  <img src='http://amandalinehan.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Hi Ian &#8211; Haha, yeah, we do tend to search even on the pointless questions.</p>
<p>Hi Sara &#8211; Yeah, I also relate to that suggestion well.  I think my problem solving ability is pretty good, but sometimes it can become a weakness when I rely on it too much.  <img src='http://amandalinehan.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Sara</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Sep 2009 23:25:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Amanda -- Ah...you caught me. Countless times I&#039;ve searched for the &quot;perfect&quot; answer or solution and countless times I&#039;ve come up empty. I finally realized that perfect doesn&#039;t really exist because as you say things change. 

I really like your suggestions. The one that hits me between the eyes is &quot;Not everything is meant to be solved.&quot; I tend to be a very persistent person and will pursue things beyond what&#039;s necessary.  Whereas  you are right, if I let go and wait usually the resolution will show up.

Thanks for this great post:~)
.-= Sara&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/sarahealy/soulconnections/~3/hyZaEsX1FIY/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Picture Story: Strange but true&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Amanda &#8212; Ah&#8230;you caught me. Countless times I&#8217;ve searched for the &#8220;perfect&#8221; answer or solution and countless times I&#8217;ve come up empty. I finally realized that perfect doesn&#8217;t really exist because as you say things change. </p>
<p>I really like your suggestions. The one that hits me between the eyes is &#8220;Not everything is meant to be solved.&#8221; I tend to be a very persistent person and will pursue things beyond what&#8217;s necessary.  Whereas  you are right, if I let go and wait usually the resolution will show up.</p>
<p>Thanks for this great post:~)<br />
.-= Sara&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/sarahealy/soulconnections/~3/hyZaEsX1FIY/" rel="nofollow">Picture Story: Strange but true</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Ian &#124; Quantum Learning</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ian &#124; Quantum Learning</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Sep 2009 14:08:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great post! 

I&#039;ve often wondered what it is about questions - good, bad or indifferent - that seem to trigger us into searching for answers. Even when the question is pointless we still search and have this desire to answer.
.-= Ian &#124; Quantum Learning&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.quantumlearning.pl/you-make-a-difference&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;You make a difference&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great post! </p>
<p>I&#8217;ve often wondered what it is about questions &#8211; good, bad or indifferent &#8211; that seem to trigger us into searching for answers. Even when the question is pointless we still search and have this desire to answer.<br />
.-= Ian | Quantum Learning&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://www.quantumlearning.pl/you-make-a-difference" rel="nofollow">You make a difference</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Mark</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mark</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Sep 2009 01:48:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great post! There are no perfect answers, at least none that will stand the test of time for as we grow the answers change. The key is understanding the answers will change and that not only is it okay it should be expected. We can often measure our growth not only by how the answers change but more importantly by the questions we ask.
.-= Mark&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://tobeme.wordpress.com/2009/09/14/allowing-others-to-be-not-forcing-our-beliefs-on-others/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Allowing Others To Be – Not Forcing Our Beliefs On Others&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great post! There are no perfect answers, at least none that will stand the test of time for as we grow the answers change. The key is understanding the answers will change and that not only is it okay it should be expected. We can often measure our growth not only by how the answers change but more importantly by the questions we ask.<br />
.-= Mark&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://tobeme.wordpress.com/2009/09/14/allowing-others-to-be-not-forcing-our-beliefs-on-others/" rel="nofollow">Allowing Others To Be – Not Forcing Our Beliefs On Others</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Amanda Linehan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Amanda Linehan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Sep 2009 00:14:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Dani - Right, and if you can remember that sometimes there isn&#039;t a perfect answer you don&#039;t have to waste the time looking for one!

Hi Chris - It&#039;s nice to think that there may be an answer that would bring you &quot;peace for life.&quot;  But, going from moment to moment is probably the best we all have.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Dani &#8211; Right, and if you can remember that sometimes there isn&#8217;t a perfect answer you don&#8217;t have to waste the time looking for one!</p>
<p>Hi Chris &#8211; It&#8217;s nice to think that there may be an answer that would bring you &#8220;peace for life.&#8221;  But, going from moment to moment is probably the best we all have.</p>
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